Public Speaking Course:
The Differences Between a Man and a Woman . . .
in the Audience that is . . .
You will learn about many differences in my public speaking course
but here is one that is especially important. You will find that an all female audience is
wonderful to work with because
they usually laugh easier and louder than an all male audience.
All-male audiences are the hardest to evoke laughter because the male ego gets in the way. They look around to see if anyone else is laughing
before they laugh, and they won't laugh as loud because they think they
will look inferior to their colleagues.
If you are a female speaker in front of an all-male audience it is
more critical for you to bond and be "one of the guys" than if your
a male presenter. I'm not being sexist here I am just stating a fact. I don't believe in sexist language,
this awareness is just part of your skills learned from your public
speaking course. I'm just
giving you some things to keep in mind if you are a female speaker and you want to be successful
in front of a general all-male audience. You must realize
not all males out there in the business world are as sensitive as me (send
all big hugs to me in care of my publisher). If your all-male audience consists of a general public audience not from the same company or
field, stick to sports, business, and money to best connect with them.
During my public speaking course I will show you how to deal with tough audiences. One
of the hardest audiences to deal with consists of a group of executives
from the same company when the CEO is present. If you say something funny, the executives will start to laugh, but
then choke it off until
they see if the CEO is laughing. If he or she is laughing, then they go ahead and laugh. This kind of audience will create timing
nightmares for you. If you are the CEO and you are in the audience for
a presentation, it is your obligation to laugh and at least act like you're having a good time to "give permission" to everyone
else that its okay to laugh. As a good presenter, you can sometimes take it upon yourself
to gently explain to the CEO before you start you presentation how everyone
will look to him or her for approval.
Audiences that consist of more than 50 percent women are good too
because the presence of females provides a good buffer and makes it
OK for the
men to laugh, since so many other people are laughing.