Public Speaking Course:
While standing around talking to other presenters in the hotel lobby at the recent
National Speakers Association convention, I learned some great skills
to add to my public speaking course.
John Meluso spent some time with me and noted that I was not showing
any vulnerability at all near the beginning of my program.
I would roll along and then tell a signature story at the END of my
talk that bared everything. John, pointed out to me that being the hard charging kind of public
speaker that I am, that I probably have been alienating many of the
more sensitive audience members. Once alienated, those audience member
do not hear you anymore.
It is likely that right from the start my style ran over them and caused
them to retreat for cover, thus making them very hard to connect with
Because of John's astute observation, when I'm speaking I will change
the order of some of my material to better connect with more subdued
Having grown up not far from Pittsburgh in Washington, Pennsylvania,
and having my brains battered playing lineman in football at school
at West Virginia U, I can still recall how an old boy coal miner friend
of mine once told me, 'The schoolhouse door is always open.'
The vulnerability is to admit that not always can we say "Our
minds be always open".
John, I want to thank you for reminding me that as we master all we
learned from our public speaking course, always and in all ways, we all can get better.